Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Growth factor aids stem cell regeneration after radiation damage

Monday, February 4, 2013

Epidermal growth factor has been found to speed the recovery of blood-making stem cells after exposure to radiation, according to Duke Medicine researchers. The finding could open new options for treating cancer patients and victims of dirty bombs or nuclear disasters.

Reported in the Feb. 3, 2013, issue of the journal Nature Medicine, the researchers explored what had first appeared to be an anomaly among certain genetically modified mice with an abundance of epidermal growth factor in their bone marrow. The mice were protected from radiation damage, and the researchers questioned how this occurred.

"Epidermal growth factor was not known to stimulate hematopoiesis, which is the formation of blood components derived from hematopoietic stem cells," said senior author John Chute, M.D., a professor of medicine and professor of pharmacology and cancer biology at Duke University. "However, our studies demonstrate that the epidermal growth promotes hematopoietic stem cell growth and regeneration after injury."

Hematopoietic stem cells, which constantly churn out new blood and immune cells, are highly sensitive to radiation damage. Protecting these cells or improving their regeneration after injury could benefit patients who are undergoing bone marrow transplantation, plus others who suffer radiation injury from accidental environmental exposures such as the Japanese nuclear disaster in 2011.

The Duke researchers launched their investigation using mice specially bred with deletions of two genes that regulate the death of endothelial cells, which line the inner surface of blood vessels and are thought to regulate the fate of hematopoietic stem cells. Blood vessels and the hematopoietic system in these mice were less damaged when exposed to high doses of radiation, improving their survival.

An analysis of secretions from bone marrow endothelial cells of the protected mice showed that epidermal growth factor (EGF) was significantly elevated - up to 18-fold higher than what was found in the serum of control mice. The researchers then tested whether EGF could directly spur the growth of stem cells in irradiated bone marrow cultured in the lab. It did, with significant recovery of stem cells capable of repopulating transplanted mice.

Next, the Duke team tried the approach in mice using three different solutions of cells in animals undergoing bone marrow transplants. One group received regular bone marrow cells; a second group got bone marrow cells from donors that had been irradiated and treated with EGF; a third group got bone marrow cells from irradiated donors treated with saline.

The regular bone marrow cells proliferated well and had the highest rate of engraftment in the recipient mice. But mice that were transplanted with the cells from irradiated/EGF-treated donors had 20-fold higher engraftment rate than the third group.

Additional studies showed that EGF improved survival from a lethal radiation exposure, with 93 percent of mice surviving the radiation dose if they subsequently received treatment with EGF, compared to 53 percent surviving after treatment with a saline solution.

Chute said it appears that EGF works by repressing a protein called PUMA that normally triggers stem cell death following radiation exposure.

"We are just beginning to understand the mechanisms through which EGF promotes stem cell regeneration after radiation injury," Chute said. "This study suggests that EGF might have potential to accelerate the recovery of the blood system in patients treated with chemotherapy or radiation."

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Sunday, February 3, 2013

Fusion Sports and Recreation becomes a new ministry of PGBC ...

Fusion Sports and Recreation becomes a new ministry of Pleasant Grove Baptist church and has began to offer a number of new activities. ?Below are their new activities that will begin over the next several weeks.?fusion

Recreation Track & Field for Boys & Girls ages 7- 14. Spring 2013 season practices will be on Monday & Thursday. Registration NOW thru February, 23, 2013.

Kandoo Track & Field ages 7- 25, designed to allow children, adolescents, and young adults with disabilities (e.g. autism, intellectual disabilities, etc.)? to participate? in basic track and field events while interacting in a team atmosphere with peers with and without disabilities. Sessions TBA.

ActivityHeld at:Royston Track and Field *Behind Elementary School and at Franklin Co. Middle School Track

Age:REC Level: 7 ? 14 , Kandoo Level Track is for ages 7 ? 25

Price:$55.00 per Individual *Sibling Discounts? -? Includes Uniform

Days of Week:6:15pm Mondays & Thursdays?? *Saturday track meets. *Travel to Athens Area

Sign Up Ends:February 20, 2013

Activity Starts:First Session is Saturday, February 23

Activity Ends:May 2013

Gender:Co-ed

VOLUNTEERS:

Fusion Sports and Recreation invites you to become a Volunteer Coach? in one of our leagues or? to serve as a Volunteer Buddy to athletes in the Fusion Kandoo Sports (special needs/ disabilities). We require that every Coach and Volunteer submit an Application and a Consent to Criminal Background Check.

Current Volunteer Needs:

Friday Sports Outreach ? basketball with RHA kids at PGBC gym 4:15p ? 6pm

Kandoo Basketball? Tuesday at 6:15p ? 7:30pm in Royston

Track & Field Assistant Coaches, Volunteers & Kandoo Track Buddies February ? May

M. Jared Hightower, Director CYSA

FUSION Sports & Recreation

jhightower@fusionsportsandrec.com

www.fusionsportsandrec.com????????? (706) 231-2281

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Ala. town mourns for bus driver amid standoff

Police and emergency personnel remain on site at the property of Jimmy Lee Sykes, a suspect accused of holding a 5-year-old boy hostage in an underground bunker on Saturday Feb. 2, 2013 in Midland City, Ala. Negotiators were still trying to persuade Jimmy Lee Dykes to surrender. Police have said they believe the Lee Dykes, a Vietnam-era veteran, fatally shot a school bus driver Tuesday, and then abducted the boy from the bus and disappeared into the home-made bunker. (AP Photo/al.com, Joe Songer)

Police and emergency personnel remain on site at the property of Jimmy Lee Sykes, a suspect accused of holding a 5-year-old boy hostage in an underground bunker on Saturday Feb. 2, 2013 in Midland City, Ala. Negotiators were still trying to persuade Jimmy Lee Dykes to surrender. Police have said they believe the Lee Dykes, a Vietnam-era veteran, fatally shot a school bus driver Tuesday, and then abducted the boy from the bus and disappeared into the home-made bunker. (AP Photo/al.com, Joe Songer)

Cade Smith, 6, watches the flame of his candle burn as his mother, Brandi, looks on during a candle light vigil for the families involved in the ongoing hostage crisis Friday night, Feb. 1, 2013 in Midland City, Ala. The Smith family feels a connection to the autistic boy named Ethan being held hostage because their son, Cade, also has autism. (AP Photo/The Dothan Eagle, Jay Hare)

In this undated photo released by the Dale County Board of Education, bus driver Charles Albert Poland, Jr., is shown. A standoff in rural Alabama went into a second full day Thursday as police surrounded an underground bunker where a retired truck driver was holding a 5-year-old hostage he grabbed off a school bus after shooting Poland, the driver dead. Poland Jr., 66, was hailed by locals as a hero who gave his life to protect the 21 students aboard the bus. (AP Photo/ Dale County Board of Education)

Members of the FBI team wait, Saturday, Feb. 2, 2013, in Midland City, Ala. Authorities said they still have an open line of communication with an Alabama man accused of abducting a 5-year-old child and holding him hostage in a bunker since Tuesday, Jan. 29. Sheriff Wally Olson said Saturday that Jimmy Lee Dykes has told them that he has blankets and an electric heater in the bunker. (AP Photo/al.com, Joe Songer) MAGS OUT.

Alabama state trooper Kevin Cook, center, speaks to media, Saturday, Feb. 2, 2013, in Midland City, Ala. Authorities said they still have an open line of communication with an Alabama man accused of abducting a 5-year-old child and holding him hosting in a bunker since Tuesday, Jan. 29. Sheriff Wally Olson said Saturday that Jimmy Lee Dykes has told them that he has blankets and an electric heater in the bunker. (AP Photo/al.com, Joe Songer) MAGS OUT.

(AP) ? As the police standoff with an Alabama man accused of holding a 5-year-old boy hostage continued Saturday, a nearby community prepared to bury the beloved bus driver who was shot to death trying to protect children on his bus when the episode began days earlier.

Charles Albert Poland Jr., 66, who was known around town as Chuck, was described by folks in his hometown of Newton as a humble hero. Hundreds of people attended a viewing service for Poland on Saturday evening. His funeral was set for Sunday afternoon.

"I believe that if he had to do it all over again tomorrow, he would," said Poland's sister-in-law, Lavern Skipper, earlier Saturday. "He would do it for those children."

Authorities said Jim Lee Dykes boarded a stopped school bus filled with 21 children Tuesday afternoon and demanded two boys between 6 and 8 years old. When Poland tried to block his way, the gunman shot him several times and abducted a 5-year-old boy ? who police say remains in an underground bunker with Dykes.

Dale County Sheriff Wally Olson said in a briefing with reporters Saturday that Dykes has told them he has blankets and an electric heater in the bunker, which is located on his rural property. Authorities have been conferring in a nearby church and communicating with Dykes through a ventilation pipe to the underground bunker.

Olson also said Dykes has allowed police to deliver coloring books, medication and toys for the boy.

"I want to thank him for taking care of our boy," Olson said. "That's very important."

The shooting and abduction took place in Midland City, a small town near Dothan, Ala., in the state's southeastern corner.

Newton is about three miles away, a small hamlet with fewer than 2,000 residents. It sits amid cotton farms and rolling hills sprinkled with red earth; most of the residents commute to Dothan or to a nearby Army post. And many knew Poland.

William Lisenby, a school bus driver who also taught Sunday School with Poland, was flanked by other area bus drivers as he arrived at Saturday night's viewing at a local funeral home.

Lisenby spoke in Biblical terms when referring to Poland.

"If you'll notice the similarities there, of what Chuck did was the same thing that Jesus Christ did. These children, even though they were not Chuck's, he laid down his life to defend those children. My hat's off to him for that," he said,

"He was a bus driver just like we are," Lisenby said. "But for the grace of God that could have been us."

Others spoke of the loss of a good man, and their hope that the little boy being held captive is alive and well and will be released soon.

"The community is real concerned," said Fred McNab, mayor of Pinckard, Ala. "You can tell by the food that's been carried over there to the church. It's just devastating. We want it to come to a resolution. We want to save that little child."

Earlier Saturday, local residents remembered Poland as a friendly man who was quick to lend a helping hand to others.

"He's probably the nicest guy you'll ever meet," said Lonnie Daniels, the 69-year-old owner of the NAPA Auto Parts store, one of three establishments in town that was open Saturday.

Daniels last saw his friend Tuesday morning, when Poland agreed to buy a car from him. The two men shook hands and closed the deal "like gentlemen," Daniels said. Poland was to return after working his bus route to pay for the car.

"He never came back," Daniels said quietly.

Daniels said Poland had been married to his wife for 43 years. Poland was from Idaho, but his wife was from Newton. The couple lived there for decades in a small mobile home, and Poland enjoyed gardening and clearing brush from his property.

"I knew that he was always there if I needed," said Daniels, adding that Poland was an excellent mechanic with an array of tools that he lent to people in town.

Neighbors and friends said Poland did various acts of kindness for people in town, from fixing someone's tractor to tilling the garden of a neighbor who had a heart attack.

"You don't owe me anything," Poland once told a recipient of his good deed. "You're my neighbor."

Skipper said Poland and his wife would often sit on their porch, drinking coffee, praying and reading the Bible.

"They loved to be together," Skipper said.

On Saturday morning, Poland's wife wasn't home. A rack of worn trucker's caps sat on hooks on the porch, and two freshly baked pies were laid atop a cooler.

The victim's son, Aaron Poland, told NBC News that he wasn't surprised by his father's final act, trying to protect a bus full of kids.

"He considered them his children," Poland said, choking back tears. "And I know that's the reason why my dad took those shots, for his children, just like he would do for me and my sister."

As Newton grieves, residents are praying for the safe return of the boy being held hostage ? and wondering about the man behind the abduction.

"We'd all like to get to him and say, 'What's wrong with you?' " said Gerald Harden, owner of a gun shop in Newton.

Harden said he checked his records to see whether Dykes had bought a firearm there, but records showed he hadn't.

In Midland City, police were mostly staying mum about their talks with Dykes, ? a Vietnam-era veteran known as Jimmy to his neighbors. Some have described him as a menacing figure with anti-government views.

One of Dykes' next-door neighbors said the suspect spent two or three months constructing the bunker, digging several feet into the ground and then building a structure of lumber and plywood, which he covered with sand and dirt.

Neighbor Michael Creel said Dykes put the plastic pipe underground from the bunker to the end of his driveway so he could hear if anyone drove up to his gate. When Dykes finished the shelter a year or so ago, he invited Creel to see it ? and he did.

"He was bragging about it. He said, 'Come check it out," Creel said.

He said he believes Dykes' goal is to publicize his political beliefs.

"I believe he wants to rant and rave about politics and government," Creel said. "He's very concerned about his property."

Police have used the pipe for communication and to deliver the boy medication for his emotional disorders. State Rep. Steve Clouse, who visited the boy's mother, said the boy has Asperger's syndrome ? a mild form of autism ? and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, or ADHD.

But police have not revealed how often they are in touch or what the conversations have been about.

Local officials who have spoken to police or the boy's family have described a small room with food, electricity and a TV.

Sheriff Olson would not say Saturday whether Dykes has made any demands. Olson added that he is limited in the details he can release.

FBI spokesman Jason Pack said Saturday that officials were working to establish a command center near the bunker.

Dykes had been scheduled to appear in court Wednesday to answer charges he shot at his neighbors in a dispute last month over a speed bump.

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Associated Press writers Eric Tucker in Washington; Tamara Lush and Phillip Rawls in Midland City; Bob Johnson in Montgomery, Ala., and AP researcher Rhonda Shafner in New York contributed to this report.

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Soccer-Alcoholic Gascoigne's life in danger, says agent

LONDON, Feb 3 (Reuters) - Former England midfielder Paul Gascoigne needs immediate help with his life in danger because of alcoholism, his agent said on Sunday.

The 45-year-old, who became a national hero thanks to his performances and tears as England reached the 1990 World Cup semi-finals, started shaking uncontrollably at a charity event last week and footage has appeared in the UK media.

"He won't thank me for saying it but he immediately needs to get help," agent Terry Baker told BBC radio.

"Whatever's happened to him in the five or six weeks since I saw him before Christmas he is not as well as he has been. His life is always in danger because he is an alcoholic. Maybe no one can save him - I don't know. I really don't know."

The former Tottenham Hotspur and Lazio player was treated for mental illness twice in 2008 and has long battled alcoholism since his playing career.

Baker said his break down at the charity event came after a friend had died in a medical facility while holding Gascoigne's hand.

Ex-Manchester United goalkeeper Peter Schmeichel used Twitter to call on England's Professional Footballers' Association to help.

"This is not fun watching. Gazza needs help. Come on PFA and (PFA chief executive) Gordon Taylor, time to step up," the Dane wrote. (Writing by Mark Meadows, editing by Pritha Sarkar)

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Friday, February 1, 2013

Inmates jump in to rescue three boys from creek

By Vignesh Ramachandran, Staff Writer, NBC News

Prisoners working in a nearby park helped save three boys whose kayak overturned in a Washington state creek, fire officials said Thursday.

Three brothers -- ages 8, 10 and 16 -- were floating down Salmon Creek near Salmon Creek Regional Park Wednesday afternoon when their kayak overturned,?Clark County Fire District 6 Chief Jerry Green told NBC News. The park is in Washington state just north of Portland, Ore.

Ten prison inmates from the Larch Corrections Center near Yacolt, Wash., were doing park maintenance when they heard screams for help and responded quickly, fire officials?told The Columbian newspaper?in Vancouver, Wash.

Inmate Nelson Pettis, 37, jumped into the strong current, floating downstream until he could grab the two younger boys and help them to a pile of floating debris, according to the newspaper.

"I don't think I was thinking at all," Pettis told The Columbian. "I was just really concentrating on getting them to safety."


Inmate Larry Bohn, 29, helped Pettis with the rescue: "They (the boys) were saying thank you repeatedly. They just seemed really scared," he told the newspaper.

The 16-year-old boy was able to swim to shore, Green told NBC News.

Inmate Jon Fowler, 28, waited for the rescue team to arrive and helped them inflate their rescue boat, The Columbian reported. Members of the Vancouver, Wash., Fire Department and Clark County Fire District 6 were part of the rescue team.

The water was "very cold" and estimated to be moving at 25 mph, Green said. The brothers were treated for mild?hypothermia, but otherwise there were no other injuries, he said. Two of the inmates were also treated for hypothermia, Portland, Ore., NBC affiliate KGW reported.

Bohn and Pettis reportedly had taken off their shirts, wrapping them around the kids to keep them warm, The Columbian reported.

The boys' names were not released.

Green said he was "extremely impressed" with the prisoners' efforts and the fact that they jeopardized their safety.

"(They) stepped up and did what was the right thing to do," Green said.

"I don't think we're heroes by any means," inmate Fowler told The Columbian. "I think we just did what any good person would do."

Nancy Simmons, a spokesperson for the Larch Corrections Center, told NBC News the brothers want to thank the inmates who helped and a meeting with their family is in the works.

This correction facility houses inmates who are not there for violent crimes and who generally have four years or less left on their sentences, Simmons said.

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Samsung may be readying as many as 8 new Android smartphones for announcement at MWC 2013, but the highly-anticipated Samsung Galaxy S IV will surely not be one of them. And that's not only because J. K. Shin himself said so ? it turns out that ?

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Thursday, January 31, 2013

The Grieving Child-MN. Parent Magazine ? Kelly Jo McDonnell

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As I stood in the quiet Iowa cemetery, I watched my 10-year-old son as he flitted around my Father?s tombstone.? Grandpa had suddenly and unexpectedly had an aortic aneurism this year, and before we knew it, was gone from our lives.? My sons Grandpa was a larger than life personality, and while I wrestled with my own grief, I worried about the large void left for my son, who was 10 and had been very close to his Grandpa. The whole experience was so sudden and a blur, and I wondered if I had traumatized his grief process since I was still running to catch up with my own.

Out of the corner of my eye, I noticed Hayden catching the glowing fireflies that had popped out during the twilight hours. He was cupping them to his mouth, saying something, and then releasing them into the air. As I shuffled closer, curious, I over heard him whispering to the fireflies ?Protect Grandpa?, before releasing them.? That bittersweet moment is etched into my memory, and for some reason, left me feeling a bit more peaceful. Perhaps Hayden was coping better than I had thought. Better than his Mother, anyway.

Grief is a tricky business, for both adults and children. And let?s face it; nothing prepares you for this business until your knee-deep in it.? But don?t make the mistake in thinking that kids don?t grasp the grieving process. Kids can grieve at any age, and it depends on their age, developmental stage and life experiences.

Inez Bersie-Mize, a licensed family therapist with Midwest Center in St. Paul, agrees that the child?s age makes a big difference. ?Their cognitive abilities, and the ability to understand and comprehend makes a big difference,? she explained, ?around 7 and 8 they still have that magical thinking, that the person could come back, or that ?Grandpa looks like he?s sleeping?. It?s very common for that age to have that thinking. Their capacity to tolerate pain, and whom they have around them also makes a difference. Their relationship to the person who died comes into play.? Kids are very tuned into their sense of pain, and if they think the person died, had a great deal of pain or trauma, then they?ll have a harder time getting over it then someone who died in their sleep.?

Come to think of it, son Hayden?s first questions about Grandpa?s passing was pain-related.? Questions such as ?Did it hurt??? ?Did Grandpa know what was happening to his heart?? Other kids, who have witnessed someone battle an illness, deal with different questions.? When Molly Sproull lost her Father to bone cancer, her son was 6 and daughter was in 3rd grade. ?My Father was in hospice, so we all knew it was coming,? Sproull remembered, ?So Ben got to say goodbye. I didn?t really pay much attention growing through the process. He was on his best behavior (during the illness) because of what I was going through. But after the funeral, that?s when he really started acting out.?

Sproull said the calls from teacher started coming soon after the funeral, and involved throwing objects and reacting to other kids. ?I look back, and I realize he was grieving,? said Sproull, ?he was just not himself.? I always tried to answer his questions (about Grandpa) without scaring him. It was hard. My daughter Abby had more tears. She understood a bit more, and I didn?t really see any negative reactions with her. She was more Mothering to me, asking if I was OK. She recognized I was grieving, even as a 3rd grader.?

Bersie-Mize said that?s the fine line that parents must walk while going through their own grief process. ?It?s better to explain it then to hide it,? stressed Bersie-Mitze, ?they need to know what?s happening, what the wake will look like, and have a choice to go or not to go. They need to be informed. A lot of kids fear crying, but when everyone else is crying, it helps them make that decision. They need to be informed.?

Brent and Christie Cuttell, Cottage Grove, are advocates of being informed. Brent lost his Father last year after an extended illness, and the couple?s three children range in age from 7 to teenagers.?? ?Kids grieve in a similar sense that we do, but it?s more pronounced. Everything a child does is more pronounced?they are louder and faster than we are, and their minds are sharper,? said Brent Cuttell, ?youngest son Camden was 7 and a half when Grandpa died. He?s a visual kid, so whenever he sees a red hat, like his Grandpa Cuttell used to wear, he gets emotional. He?ll say ?I miss Grandpa?, or ?That guy in the red hat looks just like Grandpa?. They figure out that stepping stone ? you have a Grandpa, you might even have a Great Grandpa. Now that Grandpa?s gone, that void is filled with Dad or Mom. That stepping stone and known, rock solid entity is gone.?

Christie Cuttell, who is a social worker at Psyche Recovery, Inc. in St. Paul, says her knowledge of the grief business helped her cope with her own family?s journey. ?Americans are horrible at death and dying,? she explained, ?we don?t like to talk about it, we don?t plan for it, yet it?s the only thing that is absolutely sure. It?s very frustrating when you work on death and dying. The more open we are with our kids and each other, the smoother it is going to go.?

She said youngest son Camden?s grief comes and goes in short waves and bursts, usually associated with visual triggers. ?At first he was very careful not to grieve in front of us,? remembered Christie, ?he didn?t want to upset people more. But when he went back to school and the teacher had given him an assignment to write about feelings, Camden could only get through 2 sentences, before he burst out crying.? I do think kids generally grieve better than adults. They are not at all selfish. Their genuine, and to them, it?s very literal.?

The Cuttell?s said their older teenagers took on a different grieving pattern.? ?Myles, being the boy, was more non-verbal,? remembered Christie, ?but his actions were kinder. He was not causing trouble, and would let things go that he usually wouldn?t. He was just quieter. Daughter Abby just cried her brains out, night and day. The teenaged kids had a very difference connection with Grandpa, as they are so much older than Camden. They saw Grandpa healthy, and he wasn?t sick in their memories.?

?Some of it is really just talking with them,? explained Bersie-Mize, ?it really is. It?s OK that it hurts or that it?s scary. It?s OK to say those things to kids. The more they are involved in the planning, the better. It?s important not to exclude them from your own grief. Explain how you feel inside, so they don?t feel alone or isolated.?

Through the whole process, watch for warning signs of something deeper than ?healthy? grief. ?Watch how long they are staying in grief,? explained Bersie-Mize, ?and if they are functioning in school and with friends. Are they isolating, or getting angry. Things like that should not be ignored, and sometime professional support is needed.?? Other factors to watch include inability to sleep, or loss of appetite, acting much younger for an extended period, repeated statements for wanting to join the dead person, or excessively imitating the deceased family member.

She went on to explain that it wasn?t until around the 1950?s or later that children were included at all in the whole grieving process, and until then was kept very separated from the whole ordeal. ?Including them in the process, perhaps picking out flowers, or writing poems to put in the casket, are all closure activities. Talk about how sad it feels, and the hurt inside. Let them see the tears.?

With our family, we included all the grandsons as much as we could in the planning, and communicated what would be going on during the wake and the funeral itself. Hayden had the choice of viewing Grandpa during the wake. He sat in the back of the church in the last pew for a short time before making up his mind and marching up the aisle resolutely next to me. We also let each of the grandsons choose a ?Grandpa treasure? from his dresser, and they all carried them in their pockets during the funeral. I noticed Hayden rubbing his Grandpa?s favorite pocketknife during the funeral.

After our visit to the cemetery that day, Hayden asked if Grandpa had known we were there visiting him, or if he was too busy up in heaven.

I guess only the fireflies and my dad really know the answer to that question.

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Kids books that help cope with grief:

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The Fall of Freddie the Leaf ? Leo Buscaglia

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The Next Place ? Warren Hanson

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The Old Coyote by Nancy Wood

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Papa?s New Home ? Jessica Lynn Curtis

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